Warrior Poet

    I suffer the scars of a soul that has known war!

    Thursday, April 17, 2008, 04:41 PM [General]

    Well once again I must appoligise for it being so long since my last visit to The Shire.  Though this time I must admit the circumstances have been, for lack of a better word,  earth shaking.  Over the last month or so I have been suffering severe headaches.  I thought it migranes.  Then in the last week of it, I got massive fever, and body trembling.  I was rushed to the emergency room and test for Spinal Meningheitus.  I cant spell.  Sorry.  Anyhow to my relief it was negitive.  So the docs diagosed it as a sinus infection, and sent me on my way.  After a week and no better, infact I was considerably worse.  I was yet again rushed back and had the same series of tests done.  Only this time  the docs found the cause.  It was and infection, but it had set into the brain.  The cause for the headaches.  After all the test and medication the doctor told me that had it gone another week it would have been fatal.  Ok so I survived that.  Then not less than a week, out of the blue.  Kim (my wife) tells me she doesnt want to be married anymore.  So now Im divorced  and have moved out of the house.  I had to take on a second job to make it.  I do have an apartment.  There is one good thing.  Im just taking it one day at a time.  What doesnt kills you only makes you stronger.  Im surprised I dont have an S on my chest.

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    Glad you are alive if not well

    Lady Rume
    April 18, 2008
    07:16 AM CST

    Wow. That's really sad. I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. My sister left her husband about a year ago after only being married a year. Apparently he had some problems at home, but we never saw any of it. My parents took it kind of hard. My ex-brother-in-law tried almost everything to make her stay, but she had a miscarriage and that was about the final straw. It still kind of hurts cuz my family and I were looking forward to him being a part of our family, but, things happen. To make matters worse, during the separation period, he pretty much got like a tumor in his testicles or something (which made us feel even worse) so he was alone for that. I still think fondly of him and I don't judge him for anything. He's human and if he did yell or whatever when they were alone, well, then, he just needs to grow up.
    Sorry I've left such a long comment on your site. delete it if you want, but hopefully it offered you some comfort knowing that you're not the only one who's ever gone through a divorce while being seriously ill.
    I wish you only the best, if you need to talk, I'm here to listen.
    Love & Peace Warrior,
    Caro

    Clovis Von Hutten (p...
    April 18, 2008
    01:12 PM CST

    I'm so sorry to read of all of the hard things you're going through. You seem like the type that has a good attitude though, and it will make a huge difference in how well and how quickly you get through it. God bless.
    :-)

    Kelwyn
    April 18, 2008
    08:22 PM CST

    Well sir,
    Hope this finds things going better. Just remember, "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." I know, it is corny but it is also true.
    Hope things continue to get better sir.
    At your service,
    "Est Solarus oth Mithas"
    Oakkeeper

    Landrew Farwood Oakk...
    July 01, 2008
    01:58 AM CST